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Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

The Marriage Bed...An Obituary

GOTCHA!
Forty-three years ago the first bed was made.  Although we have changed beds through the years for some reason it has been a battle for poor Hubby.

Our first bed was my hand-me-down from my child hood.  It was a fine old iron bedstead that passed through generations.  It had the drop springs and a cotton tick mattress.  Our first purchase after we married was a new mattress and box springs (paid off by the monthly honor system).  We had to cut slats to keep the new set from falling through the frame. When we had company I was so proud of the new set that I would rip the bed clothes off to show my mattress.

As life went on the mattress went through the birth and young years of two children, we decided to upgrade to a Queen sized bed.  Hog heaven!  Room to move!

Hubby had no problems with these changes.  He enjoyed them however when it came time to change our Queen to a newer mattress the trouble began.  Hubby tossed and turned and pulled the fitted sheet off during the night and declared "We are never changing mattresses again!"  It took him a week before he could sleep.

The next change was necessary.  The box springs had broken (shhh, don't tell, I jumped on the bed with grandchildren) and no matter how often we turned the mattress there were permanent lumps in the bed.  Soooo here we go again.  Hubby laid on every bed in the store and finally, grudgingly chose a mattress.  It was another week of tossing, turning, flopping and not sleeping until he broke this bed in to suit his needs.

As we grew our bed shrunk.  So I started talking new bed.  No Way!!!  Not going through that again. After really seeing how nice and large a King was he seriously considered a new purchase.  The anticipation of his legs no longer hanging off the end of the bed finally changed his mind.  He bit the bullet and bought a new King.   It was wonderful...after his standard week of adjustment.

The last mattress we purchased still lays good and when I speak of it being time to change the mattress again Hubby runs backwards.  No way was he ever changing the mattress again!

I guess I said all that to say this:  Although we have gone through many mattresses we still are together.  A true testament to love that he endured the pain of changing a mattress...just for me.  He also holds my hair out of the way while I puke!  Now that's true love!

Happy Anniversary, Hubby!

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Forty-Two Years Together...

and he still loves me, in spite of or because of all my weird ways.  He told me one year he has never been bored with me.  That may be the secret.

We've had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we never go to sleep mad.  That was the advice my amazing Granny Pruett gave me years ago.

Hubby romances me with rocks and found glass.  These are the best gifts because he knows what makes me happy.  I romance him with food as Granny Pruett advised the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

It has worked and is still working for both of us.  We are comfortable. I think that may be true love. Knowing what the other enjoys and being comfortable enough not to feel the need  for meaningless conversation. Teasing and joking but always aware of never crossing the line from just plain ornery to mean.

What ever the secret is...it's still working.  We may call each other butt wipe now and then but we always go home together.

Hubby was/is a surprisingly old fashioned gentleman.  He asked my parents for my hand in marriage and picked the engagement ring long before I even knew.  He knew I would say yes!

As I stir arsenic into his soup I smile. I really do love him but he has to go.
Happy Anniversary, honey!!!
Here's to another forty-two if the arsenic fails me.
As Bill Engvall says, "Here's your sign!" but I wasn't reading.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Many Of You...

have wondered how I received my flowers celebrating our long lived marriage. My sister got a picture just at the right time!
The rest of the night was spent paying for said flowers.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Guessing Game, ETC

I am glad I have a job, I am glad I have a job, I am glad I have a job. Do you think I may be suffering from burn out??
Can you guess what this wonderful native tree is? These are the young fruit.

Tomorrow my hubby and I will have been married for thirty-seven years!!!! Seems like just yesterday but on the other hand, it seems like centuries...we are just like this clematis, all wrapped around each other...right!
Seriously, I made a good choice and even if he forgets tomorrow, I will still love him anyway. It would take too long to get this comfortable with some one else!
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